Date Posted: 03/29/10

FED UP!

  Posted by: Fed Up

 

  Post # 10-0021  
   
  I’d like to take a moment to thank Larry & Chris for taking the initiative to create this means of candid communication amongst neighbors. This is LONG overdue and (if used properly) a fantastic venue for us to reverse the rolls that have been so out of whack for so very long.

I built my home in Sierra Ridge 16 ½ years ago and am proud to have been here from the very beginning of our community’s history. I’ve seen many neighbors come and go; some were wonderful and a great loss as they moved along and some we couldn’t wait to get rid of. My family put up with a neighborhood (adult) bully for a couple years of pure hell. It was SUCH a relief when these renters moved on so those of us who had a vested interest in our community could get back to enjoying the quality of life we expected in our community.

Jomar is a bully to this entire community. Because we “invited” them in to our neighborhood they wander through acting as though they own the place. They throw their weight around as they see fit. They threaten, harass, intimidate and extort money just like any other bully, given a chance. The shame of all this is technically they do all this legally. WE put them here. It’s up to US to do something about it.

I think this blog is going to be invaluable for us as a community to collectively get our act together and make the changes necessary. We need to collectively express our concerns and complaints and have a venue to do it without fear of retribution. I know firsthand how vindictive Jomar can be; having suffered the wrath on a few occasions when I chose to stand up to them and cross swords.

Unfortunately we have allowed Jomar (and the board) to become TOO powerful. We need strength in numbers, my friends and neighbors. This is the only way we will be able to make changes that will benefit us all and still maintain the integrity and aesthetics of our beautiful community.

My caution as we move forward through this process is we don’t use this blog as a means of pitting neighbor against neighbor. One of the most common failures of an effort such as this is the “divide and conquer” syndrome. We need to remain united as a community and work TOGETHER to reign in or eradicate the “bully” that has most of us cowering and fearful to speak up for fear of the spiteful retaliation many of us know all too well that Jomar and to a lesser degree our ELECTED board are capable of.

I’ve already seen a few shots taken at residents who were blindsided by someone expressing a complaint here. Might I suggest “communicating” in a neighborly fashion? An acceptable process of initially dealing with ANY issue between people is to address it directly. If you have genuinely tried to resolve issues with each other only then should it escalate to a higher level. Also, besides options such as complaining to the Board or Jomar, the city of Scottsdale does offer “mediation” services for many issues between neighbors.

It was a relief for once to find one of those “pesky” door hangars on my door this weekend. I hope many of the owners of Sierra Ridge will take the time to read the entries in this blog and realize they aren’t alone in the way they’ve been treated. Even better, I hope they will take the initiative to subscribe to this blog as I did this weekend, and share their stories of interest with the rest of the community. My bet is we will begin to see just how rampant this organization has run, and that we DO need to create a course of action that will make the changes we deserve.

Get involved and speak your mind. I’ll guarantee the Board is well aware of this blog. You can also be assured Jomar will be advised, and will most certainly closely monitor every entry posted here. I personally am aware of one community in the Valley that has invited the bully Jomar to pack their bags and leave. Maybe they will either take notice and begin to work FOR us as was intended, or….not let the door hit them in the ass on their way out. It’s up to us!!
   
   
 

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